Boyfriend still has a dating profile
I don't believe he is actively using the site, and I know he's not cheating on me. It's a feeling based on a fact, and so denying or correcting yourself would be an early step in ignoring information just because it's negative. What matters now, and where "right" and "wrong" are valid, is what you do with the information.
It would be wrong to come out, accusations blazing, and corner your boyfriend on the profile and the emails.
We have also gotten them several times a month for the past three years.
What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.
I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.
I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.
Just another reminder that context is everything, thanks.
You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.