Dating women feeling unworthy
Another guy speaks up and points out that his main reason for not being active in the dating scene was that he felt he needed to be financially set before he could seriously commit to a woman.
He begins to express how his parents struggled financially and how it put a lot of stress on their marriage. If he could become financially secure, then he would feel much more at ease about being with a woman. ” After the money talk subsided a man blurted out, “I don’t date simply because I’m not any good at it!
Why endure the heartache and waste his and some poor girl's time by starting something that most likely wouldn’t work out anyway?
He expresses his insecurity that even though he has a decent job while still in grad school, that he still feels inept as a man because he could not support a woman even if he wanted to. He laid out a list of reasons why romance was simply not in his blood.He said, “Nothing…I would pursue a girl, but I just have not found what I’m looking for.” The guys asked him what that was exactly. ” All of a sudden the audio is lost; then the video also fades and you realize that your masculine passport is expiring.He answered, “It’s simple…I’m looking for the same things you’re looking for. You find yourself back where you started…in estrogenville.You -- an estrogen carrier -- are an alien in the world of the testosterone breathers. Say nothing…just listen…at first nothing but grunts can be heard, but after a few minutes a word is understood. You think how rude and cold these guys must be to not say anything, but to your surprise, none of the guys seem bothered in the least about the silence. The following is just a sample of what was unveiled.You are not totally sure, but you think the word was…football. Before you know it you can actually understand a sentence or two. The silence is abruptly interrupted with the subject that you have been waiting for since you became a fly on the wall…girls…dating…and what guys are thinking about the two. As he begins to talk you realize that guys ponder way more than emotions.Except there’s something a little bit different about how you view the men in your life.The guy you once looked at with a bit of resentment for not calling doesn’t look like as big of a jerk.You have put numerous amounts of hours lamenting how media has affected the perception of the ideal beauty and the pressures you have likely felt with all of the super models on TV, yet it never really dawned on you how that same thing might be occurring for guys.What do fairy tales and romantic comedies say about guys? She is wild about him, and will follow him anywhere.But he has a hard time believing that she loves him, and interprets her love as neediness or loneliness.