Deal dating shorter man
I don’t want to say that women should be judged for their past mistakes, but you have to be practical about this.
Many ex-boyfriends can be violent and even well-balanced dudes has been known to lose it and resort to irrational activity in the face of rejection.
I think the bigger issue is how comfortable random men are talking to me about my body.
In a society where there are ideals of femininity and masculinity, it can be difficult for individuals who don't fit neatly into those boxes.
Plus, navigating the world of dating is already a mess, so being on an extreme end of any physical spectrum doesn't exactly make it any easier.
Kevin: I'm not one to complain about being short, because once you realize you can shop in the children's section and climb on top of things to get to out-of-reach objects, you're pretty much on a level playing field with the rest of the world. I think a lot of guys fetishize the height gap and say things like, "I'm so into you because you're so short," or "It's really hot knowing that I could lift you up in bed," etc.
It’s a lot harder to argue self defense in court when the dead body is that of a former suitor of your current significant other.
Ideally, there will be a paper trail demonstrating the individual’s prior instability, but it’s not hard to imagine how bad your case will look if the bad guy shows up out of the blue and you’re forced to defend yourself.